Passion For Shibari Bondage

I came across Shibari rope bondage at a kink event where I saw people tying each other up but I haven’t paid enough attention to it back then. Only later as a friend asked me to be his model or ‘rope bunny’ as part of a course I said ‘Yes’ without having any expectations. The workshop was sterile and educational and shown us some basics. I did not understand all details yet but it made me feel good to be in ropes and made me feel more curious about the whole idea. After that I pursued studying and learning the knots myself. Being creative and handy, I had the skills to grasp the technique pretty quickly. Slowly building my knowledge, practicing regularly with my girlfriends, I swapped sides to becoming a rigger. It may sound controversial- I am a true sub, still- but tying women gives me a nice sensual feeling of control without me becoming ‘domme’.

A later trip to Japan manifested my love for this ancient skill which is part of Japanese sex culture and spread to the West from there. It originated from a form of martial arts as a way to capture prisoners in a fast and effective way.

Rope is a tool for sensual enhancement with a partner, one can do already so much with one piece of rope! Tying the hands together, making a leash; immobilise or pulling the body a certain direction sets the dynamics straight immediately. It says: I have the skill, through rope and my presence to have power over you, I am in charge since only I can tie and untie the knots. You have nowhere to go and nothing to do, till I decide otherwise…

I love to use rope in a session and I will happily show you a few basics you can immediately apply. I do melt away when I feel the restriction of the rope on my skin and go into my subspace, allowing you to go further…Rope can slide through my naughty and delicate places and keep toys in place for prolonged and forceful sensations. Or blindfolded, with my hands tied behind my back, I am only able to weakly wriggle when I hear you Sir coming up behind me…